Weekend to Remember: Secrets Unleashed

My wife and I have been married for 32 wonderful years. Even though we feel we have a great marriage and a great relationship, I believe there are always things we can do to make it better. So in an effort to make improvements we went to what is called a Weekend to Remember, put on by FamilyLife Ministries. It does not matter where you are in your marriage you owe it to yourself, and your marriage, to go to one of these events. I have heard about these events for years but never seriously gave them any consideration. I can now say it was one of the best investments we have ever made. I will conclude my raving by saying that my wife and I have gone to many ministry events over the years, and this one ranks with the best.

So in an effort to put some polishing touches on our marriage I asked my wife to hold me accountable in a couple of different areas. It is always a humbling experience to admit you have a weakness, and you want accountability. I have done this over the years with different mentors and male role models in my life, but I have never pursued the area of being accountable to my wife. (I do find myself asking the question, why? That is a different topic for a different time).

So one of the areas I asked my wife for help in, is in the area of masturbation. Let me start by saying that I don’t feel there is anything wrong with occasionally masturbating, and by no means do I often masturbate. I have been known to let off a little harmless pressure once in awhile due to the fact my sex drive is stronger than hers. So let me explain my thoughts.

My first thought is that I believe God’s desires for us is to have an open and honest relationship. You may not agree with me, but it would be my desire that my wife knows all the details of my life, no matter how personal. I would also like to know all the details of her life. It is my thought that if I know all her details I will then be able to love her and serve her more fully.

I am reminded of Ephesians 5:25, Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her. Christ is the definition of love, and I am sure He knows all the details, good and bad of each one of us and there should be no question of His love for us.

I also would hope that, as my wife begins holding me accountable, her mind is going to be required to engage in her lovers’ sexuality more often. It would be hard for her to ask me if I have masturbated in the last couple days without her thoughts going to that place.

Then of course after she asks the question she will need to be ready for my answer. Let’s play out a couple of scenarios.

First comes her question to me, something like, “Honey, have you been good?”

Knowing what she is referencing, I will say, “Well, as you know, I did have Tuesday off. When I woke up, not only was I home alone, but I had this killer erection.”

Then she replies by asking, “So tell me, what did you do with that killer erection, and what did you think about?”

Then I will give her an answer something like this….

“You know, Baby, when I woke up my erection was aching it was so hard. I think it must have been hard half the night, or maybe it was because of my dream. I woke up thinking about our Friday night love making session and could not help but lay on my back and start stroking myself. You know what happened Friday night, after all you were the one that squirted all over our clean sheets, but let me tell you. You love it when you are laying on your back, and I place that extra firm pillow under your butt. After the pillow is in the position, it is kind of like your pussy is doing a wheelie. With your beautiful pussy up in the air like that it makes it so easy for me to get my face down there and have very easy access to my favorite meal.”

“As I continued stroking myself, I thought about how much I love to tease you. I love to kiss and lick your thighs. It’s so much fun to place my tongue about mid thigh and ever so slowly drag my tongue up your thigh until I am just inches from your pussy. You can never tell which time my tongue will continue the path to what we both desire. It was so much fun for me to hear the sound of your pleasure when that time finally came that my tongue continued the path until it fell between your pussy lips. It was then that I discovered how wet all my teasing had made you. Oh, and Baby, how I love the taste of your juices.”

“I continued to enjoy the licking and teasing of your clit until it doubled in size. You also enjoyed it when my middle finger slowly began to enter your pussy hole. As my finger slid inside and found what he was looking for, and began to stroke that special spot, I could tell you were happy because your butt started to come off the pillow.”

“You know, Honey, I love stroking that spot of yours because it does not take long before it starts to swell and get larger. I know it brings you great pleasure but, it also gives me great enjoyment too. Because you know, when that little G spot grows, it makes your hole just that much tighter.”

“I was more than ready to penetrate you with something besides my finger but I was not going to give him to you until I heard you ask for him or maybe even beg for him.”

“And then as you remember you were just about to cum when you spoke out. I think what you said was something like, I need you inside me, please. After the third time when you called me by my full name I thought it was time.”

“I then got on my knees and positioned myself between your legs. With your butt upon the pillow and your pussy still pulling a wheelie, it made my access very easy. Once I was in position, I did what I know you love. You want to tell me what I did next my dear?”

My wife didn’t need any reminders, she spoke out quite firmly, “Yes,! You teased me with the head of your cock!”

“Yes, that is correct. I wrapped my fingers around the very base of my erection and squeezed. You love it when I do this because the veins on my shaft pop out and also my cock gets hard as a rock. And let’s not forget the best part, do you want to tell me what that is, Baby.”

She did not hesitate by saying, “Oh, Baby, I love how big and pronounced your big mushroom head gets when you squeeze your base.”

I then said, ”Well you know what happens next so I probably don’t need to tell you the rest of the story do I?”

All she said was, “You better keep going.”

So I continued. “You love it when I rub my head on your clit. It’s so much fun to rub him back and forth, and even now and then to gently slap him onto your clit. And of course it drives us both crazy when I place that blood-filled head directly at your opening and do little circles. I think its fun to watch your hips come up off the pillow. I know you are just hoping that you will feel my head make its entrance. And then of course just inside your entrance you know so very well that the mushroom head will bring even additional pleasure as he comes in contact with that spot that makes you squirt. You also know that you are not going to receive your filling until you beg for me to give him to you.”

At this point in the story I asked my wife, “Baby, tell me what happens after you demand that I bury my cock into your pussy?”

Her reply was, “Sure, once you slid inside me I couldn’t take it any longer and I came all over your cock.”

To her reply I said, “Well that is your version of the story but mine is just a bit different.”

A bit confused she asks, “Well what is your version then?”

“That may be accurate as to what happen Friday night, but as for as Tuesday morning it was at that point in reliving the night that I shot this big hot load all over my chest.”

So now back to having my wife hold me accountable.

It is my hope that after being open an honest with my wife not only will she understand me better, but also after reliving our lovemaking mentally she will be stimulated physical.

Let me try another scenario.

My wife comes up to me and asks, “Honey, have you masturbated since the last time I asked you?”

And this is what she may hear.

“My Love, I have not masturbated, and if my memory is correct the last time we made love was Sunday night. Do you know how many days that is? The correct answer would be, too many. Well, that is how many days my balls have been producing, and storing a load for you. You know that this is longer than they are normally asked to store their product. Do you have any suggestion as to what I should do to release this pressure?”

There are many ways my wife can answer this question, and my guess is I will like the answer.

So I am going to experiment with this idea of having my wife hold me accountable. It will be my effort to be as open and honest as I can be. I look forward to seeing where this will take me/us.

And then let me ask this:

What will you tell your spouse when he/she asks you if you have masturbated sense the last time I asked??

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